Rumi said, “Show me a fear without hope, or a hope without fear. The two are inseparable” For example, a farmer plants wheat. Naturally he hopes that wheat will grow. At the same time he is afraid some obstacle or pest may destroy it. So, there is no hope without fear, or fear without hope.”
But this fear not only is Cause of disappointment, but also creates humiliation feel. Since, hope is along with fear and humiliation, hope feel can be a conditioned stimulus for humiliation feel, so some people for avoiding from unpleasant feels such as fear and humiliation don’t choose challenging goals, even when they know that attending to this goal is necessary, despite this need, they procrastinate unconsciously goal setting for avoiding from the pain of humiliation.
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